About Us
We think it is a good idea to start a BDSM session with some kind of ritual that signals the beginning of the session and begins to excite everyone. A hug is a good way to start the session based on feelings of caring, of connection. For bondage sessions, you can have the ritual of putting the collar on your bottom: Most tops like to have their bottom kneel at their feet and put the collar around their neck. Touching the dominated person's shoulders or back or neck creates a relaxed and calming connection. Simply by having the bottom person keep a certain distance and having to remain motionless, staring at the ground, and then slowly turning around as you examine every inch of their body, your eyes burning with lust, can be an exciting start. Janet sometimes likes her bottom to leave the room and come back in, understanding that once she comes back in, the BDSM session has started. Tying can be a good start for many sessions. In other words, virtually any start can work, as long as it connects and excites you.